
Smoking
Basics
Whenever
I ask the question, ‘Why do you smoke?’.
The answer I usually get is, ‘Because I’m addicted
to nicotine.’
It is true that smokers are nicotine addicts. You would be hard
pressed to find anyone today who does not accept that nicotine
is addictive and that smokers are addicted.
I started smoking when I was a teenager. There were many reasons.
I remember the peer pressure. I remember feeling rebellious
and wanting to appear “cool,” to look more mature
and sophisticated. It is a bit embarrassing to realize I probably
appeared only as an awkward and foolish youngster. Whatever
my initial motive was, it had little or nothing to do with why
I continued to smoke. If you are a long time smoker, I doubt
you continue to smoke because you think it looks cool.
Soon after you began smoking, you became addicted physically.
At some point after you finish one cigarette and before you
light the next, the nicotine level in your body drops and you
begin to experience predictable and specific symptoms of nicotine
withdrawal. They are;
1- general muscle tension
2- shallow breathing, usually felt as anxiety
or nervousness,
3- a shift in mood or emotion; increased frustration
or irritability.
4- difficulty thinking or concentrating.
(For a more
complete list, see Symptoms)
These
symptoms of nicotine withdrawal usually appear within 20 to
30 minutes after putting out a cigarette. It may be longer for
someone who smokes only a few cigarettes in a day and much shorter
for a chain smoker.
At first,
the physical symptoms of withdrawal are so subtle they’re
below your level of awareness. However, the longer you go without
a dose of nicotine, the more intense these symptoms become until
you are uncomfortably aware of them. When you do finally light
up, inhaled nicotine is carried throughout your body within
eight to twelve seconds and “withdrawal discomfort”
is immediately relieved.
It is
easy to see how you quickly established the association between
the discomfort of withdrawal and the relief of lighting up.
This is how the need/feed pattern of nicotine addiction first
becomes established. To avoid experiencing any discomfort you
taught yourself to anticipate and immediately recognize the
most subtle of physical cues, body cues. It was then that your
response became automatic. Once you had become an 'automatic'
smoker, the stage was set for your nicotine addiction to spawn
your smoking habit.
Have
you ever lit a second cigarette because you forgot you already
had one going? Most long term smokers have. That’s one
example of automatic behavior. Here is another example that
illustrates a part of you I call the 'autopilot'.
If you
drive, can you recall a time when you had driven some distance,
lost in thought, and suddenly realized you did not remember
a thing about driving the past several miles? Yet you had stayed
within your lane, had adjusted your speed according to traffic
and road conditions, had avoided other cars, and had turned
or stopped when it was necessary.
So, what part of you was driving while the conscious you wasn't
paying attention? Your autopilot.
The
same auto pilot who steers your car is also in charge of recognizing
the subtle body cues that signal your lowered nicotine level.
It is easy enough to identify road cues connected with steering
this way or that, but what are the body cues your autopilot
identified as those connected with smoking? They are the initial
symptoms of nicotine withdrawal mentioned previously;
1- general muscle tension
2- shallow breathing, usually felt as anxiety
or nervousness,
3- a shift in mood or emotion; increased frustration
or irritability.
4- difficulty thinking or concentrating.
Interestingly,
these very same cues are present whenever you are stressed,
whether it's due to nicotine withdrawal, hunger, anger, boredom,
loneliness, fatigue, or any other.
To begin
to understand the physical nature of the smoking habit, let’s
take a look at some common smoking situations. The easiest way
to do this is to write out a list of 10 - 12 situations. I'll
start you off with a few:
1- Hungry
2- Angry
3- Lonely/Bored
4- Tired
5- Taking a break
(add some more situations when/where you smoked)
6-
7-
8-
9-
10-
11-
12- and nicotine withdrawal.
Cognitivequitting
takes as truisms two statements.
The first is:
"The majority of the cigarettes
a smoker lights have little or no direct connection to nicotine
addiction."
Take a look at that list, including your additions, and see
if that first truism applies to you. Aside from 'nicotine withdrawal'
and possibly 'first thing in the morning', if you included that,
what do those situations really have to do with a nicotine addiction?
The answer is that, aside from nicotine addiction and ‘first
thing in the morning’ with its nicotine deficiency, there
is no direct connection. There is, however, a well establish
connection between our physical experience of nicotine withdrawal
AND every other situation on that list.
Once
more, the initial symptoms of nicotine withdrawal:
1- general muscle tension
2- shallow breathing, usually felt as anxiety or nervousness,
3- a shift in mood or emotion; increased frustration or irritability.
4- difficulty thinking or concentrating.
Go back
to your list and take a look at which of those included elements
of nicotine withdrawal.
Starting
with the first 4:
1- Hungry included
- Abdominal discomfort, usually muscular cramps/pangs
- Difficulty concentrating as hunger increases
2- Angry
included
- General muscle tension- certainly shoulders, neck, and abdomen
- Usually rapid and shallow breathing
- Anger certainly involves a shift in emotional state
-Attention is narrowly focused on the source of the anger
3- Lonely/Bored
included
-A lack of physical activity resulting in some degree of muscular
discomfort or stiffness
-Slouching restricts breathing, resulting in shallow breathing
-A lack of mental activity, foggy headed
4- Tired
included
-muscular discomfort, weakness, lack of energy
-slow shallow breathing
- some degree of frustration or irritability due to the inability
to function to par
-sluggish foggy thinking, difficulty concentrating
Once our autopilot learned to automatically associate a smoking
response to the body cues that signaled nicotine withdrawal
than ANY sensation that felt like withdrawal, regardless of
its source, would elicit an urge to smoke. Go through the rest
of your list and see if you can identify elements of nicotine
withdrawal in other situations. Just think back on your own
experiences as your guide.
This
leads into the second Cognitivequitting truism, which states
that
"Every cigarette a smoker lights
is triggered by some body cue."
As you have seen from your own list, most of your smoking had
little direct connection to a fluctuating nicotine level. Yet
the focus of most attempts to quit is solely the chemical addiction.
This is why even if a smoker succeeds in becoming nicotine free,
too often they will fail to stay quit further down the line.
If you
are serious about quitting and staying quit, it is time to address
the smoking habit and not just the chemical addiction. Therefore,
the next section, A Different Way to Quit, will lay out the
two key steps in the Cognitivequitting program: Foundation Statements
and the Timer Exercise.
You
are going to 'show' your autopilot how to change and not just
'tell' him that he must. You're going to deal directly with
the source of your smoking habit.
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